Monday 4 February 2013

Who's more complicated, boys or girls?

Lovelies, I have returned.

And today with a topic I thought extremely interesting. I was with my friends the other day at school(who are mainly guys by the way) and one of them said "Girls are far more confusing than guys." So I thought, hmm, I'm gonna do some research, so I got my good friend Lewis to help me out with this.
So we were in the library today discussing the complications of men and women and here's what we said.

Lewis: Girls get so many mood swings, especially at this age, their hormones are crazy and you can't tell what mood they're in, it could be happy, or bloody angry and explosive. Also when they ask the dreaded question "How do I look?" There is no way to win, any comment made can be easily mis-interpreted into an insult. Another thing, when they ask something and get an answer they always ask why, for e.g "Girl: Are you my best friend? Boy: Yes. Girl: Why? Boy: Because you're lovely and kind. Girl: But why? Boy: Because you're amazing?..." Girl : But, why??????...etc." It's endless, also there is no right answer, again it  can be very easily taken the wrong way. They get angry over very little things, like if you forget their birthday. Generally they're very complex, weather you're popular and happy, or quiet and secretive, they over think lots of little things and are very picky and pedantic, sometimes. They also get way too obsessive over their appearance, they spend so long when all they're doing is walking around school, guys don't find tonnes of makeup attractive, most of them look better without it.

Shriya: Generally (not ALL) think they can get away with treating girls badly. Weather a friend or girlfriend, sister, mother, in some way they think it's ok to ignore messages, and ok to leave things lying around, and think they will be forgiven and get away with it, continuously. Often they are inappropriate about girls. I know this because I regularly hang round with like 12 guys and they talk about porn, girls they think are hot, about certain bodily features, etc. They find girls attractive even if they don't like their personality, they judge people especially girls, on our appearance then they complain that we wear too much makeup and doing  our hair is a waste of time. They get very obsessive, again, this is a general thing, they get so addicted to games, weather it be minecraft or fifa, or black ops or just dance. What every they're into, I've noticed they get very competitive, addicted, and constantly occupied by them, it becomes like a way of life to them that they have no time for anything else. They should learn to priorotise  Some are very very narrow minded and don't think about the other things in life, like there is so much in the world, different places and cultures, and nature, and music and art, and facts, and sometimes by their behavior it doesn't seem like they are interested in anything else but what they like, and are unaware of the possibilities in life. A lot of them hide their emotions, it's not illegal to tell someone if you're upset, or what you're thinking! Lastly, sexist jokes? Why do you think you can make them, they aren't funny and make us hate you.

To be honest, everything Lewis said was more or less correct, and I completely agree that the majority of girls do everything he said, we are a complicated species, but you love us anyway:)
So we sat and discussed, and I took notes and debated and concluded that we have these opinions and perceptions not only from our own experience but from stereotypical portrayals. In movies and TV shows often men are the ones to cheat, or do something wrong so many women feel men are untrustworthy, and dishonest, and treat women badly like I said earlier. And women are portrayed as over-emotional dramatic, complicated people, which is why men sometimes exaggerate, and when a girl is angry one day, the immature ones are like "oh she's on her period." which annoys the hell out of us by the way, don't do it. 

So, what do you guys think? Who's more complicated guys or girls?

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